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Looking for a disciplinarian
I feel that lately I have become lazy and apathetic. It is sometimes hard to concentrate on work and chores.
Therefore I would like to meet a Disciplinarian, who would control my life - with the script and email communication.
I am not seeking for a sexual and erotic pleasure, although this is a part of disciplining as well. It just isn't my main goal. I need to become a better person and get rid of the attitude that "tomorrow is a better day for all the chores".
I am a male, 57 years old. Married (which makes it complicated). Submissive by nature.
If someone is interested - male or female - please send me an email: firstname.lastname@example.org
I was in a very similar situation. That leaded me to a self written script. No one will ever know your situation better then you are!
- Make a list of goals you want to achieve.
- Make a list of actions you have to do to achieve those goals.
- Make a list of punishments you'd like to avoid for misbehaviour.
- Make a list of rewards for good behaviour.
- Compile all those lists in a script, test, try, fix, repeat 🙂
Hope this will help.
Thank you for your reply! These are all good and valid points what you brought out. I am currently doing it: made a script and trying it out.
- it is much more efficient and real looking if there is someone else controlling you, making decisions and punishing you. Even if it's only online.
- I'm not much of a script writer.
Therefore, still looking.
@gregor Good luck. However it's even easier to show what you are into, if you have some kind of script already running. And this script can help you to understand yourself better.
Hello. I am willing to work with you if you want. I am a sub too, but I think I can pretend to be a dom fairly effectively . I have worked with some of the best doms in the world. I am mainly interested in improving my own scripting abilities. If you want to give it a try, fill out asub's great 5 point list and send it to me at email@example.com
That is great! But I have to ask what is this 5 point list and where can I get it? I looked around here, but didn't find anything.